Nice memories of things I did with Kazumi
1. Going to City Island/Bronx Zoo on date, eating fried oysters in empty seaside restaurant
2. Going to Mitsuwa in Edgewater, buying omakase before New Year's and eating together on New Year's Day morning
3. Shopping for camping stuff in Sports Authority, then setting it up inside apartment, Lumi scratched hole in tent
4. Driving up to Harriman State Park at night and Kazumi getting scared because road was dark and winding
5. Getting sick in Mexico on Kazumi's birthday and she had to go to restaurant by herself but she took care of me anyway
6. Taking pictures with funny faces at home with Mac photobooth
7. Hiking up Cadillac mountain in Acadia and having hot tea at top
8. Hiking in rain along Poplopen Gorge near West Point, getting lost, going in a circle and then finding way back, didn't freak out, was proud of her for sticking through rain
9. Grilling in Staten Island park in muddy park and it started to rain, helped to pack up stuff quickly
10. Going to midtown library and then waiting for Kazumi at Lord and Taylor, texting back and forth
11. Meeting in K-town and having oxtail soup, driving home together after work
12. Meeting in Chinatown for dimsum, walking around, having ice cream
13. Meeting in East Village and having tebasaki chicken
14. Hiking along Hudson River, getting lost around abandoned mansion, finding way back
15. Going to Mexican town in van after escaping from Cancun resort for a day
16. First night of camping in Salisbury park, holding down tent during rainstorm while Kazumi slept
17. Last day of vacation in Quincy, finding hiking trail in park, eating at IHOP, sad to be going home next day.
18. Going to Philadelphia, nice hotel, eating dimsum in Chinatown, visiting historical sites and museum
19. Playing literati online with Kazumi, teaching her how to play checkers, talked about playing chess but never did it
20. Driving to Long Beach at night, walking along beach, talking about her father, eating dinner at BBQ restaurant
21. Cooking and eating together at home and then watching interesting DVD at home or getting gelato for dessert
22. Taking Lumi outside into hallway and hearing her growl
23. Taking Lumi to outdoor terrace and seeing her walk around close to the ground and hiding in shadows
24. Going to Benihana, seeing onion volcano in person
25. Watching Office, Flight of the Conchords, and Arrested Development together.

Bad memories
1. Fighting, breaking up, not leaving me alone, arguing in circles, not willing to let go
2. Grabbing steering wheel of car while I was driving
3. Becomes childish, unreasonable and loud when she doesn't get what she wants immediately
4. Screaming at top of her lungs about asparagus and pork while in Acadia, saying its all my fault, everyone around us heard
5. Insisting that I drive all the way to Montauk, then gets mad when I want to stop by Suffolk to check out perdiem location
6. Doesn't like to spend time in sun which makes it hard to do things like go to beach, outdoor concerts, etc.
7. Comes over on weekend when we had planned to go away, sleeps all day, plays tetris, eats my food and then sleeps
8. Leaves dirty clothing, cups and dishware around my apartment.
9. Doesn't help to clean up even though she spends more time here than at home.
10. Was not supportive after LSAT cancellation, called me a loser and only wanted to know if I was going to take it again
11. Was not supportive when I was deciding about Singapore job
12. Called me boring, loser, asshole, and said she was glad to be breaking up, then thought she could just take it back
13. Lied to me about going to see Joyce when she really was going to see Scott
14. Can't trust her anymore, not sure what else she hasn't told me. Probably has lame excuse ready in her head if I find out.
15. Always complains about her co-workers and friends
16. Hated helping out with wedding because she didn't like getting emails even though she didn't have to do much except read
17. Sometimes got mad at Lumi when she was really mad at me
18. Often got mad at me when she was really mad at someone else (coworker, friends, Bloomingdale's, dentist, etc.)
19. Gets mad a lot for no reason, and then won't let it go until it turns into a full-blown fight
20. Becomes really arrogant and selfish while arguing saying things like "Ex-boyfriends ALWAYS come back to me."
21. Not realistic about life and relationships
22. Spends too much time reading about celebrity gossip and shopping on-line
23. Very defensive about taking advice and criticism
24. Doesn't appreciate or even realize that I tried very hard to make her happy, even though I realized that wasn't enough.
25. Said very mean things whenever we fought, much meaner than anything I would say, and specifically intended to hurt my feelings based on what she believed would hurt me the most.